I thought my Tumblr was public (to all the public, not just other Tumblr people); I’ll check my privacy settings and see if this is possible. Thanks for letting me know that you couldn’t see it.
Well put! I never understood the be all and end all focus so many women (and girls) have on “A Man” either! I remember being totally bewildered by my best friend’s attitude to needing and wanting a BOYFRIEND in high school. I would like to find my life partner, and I’m not that young any more and I would really like to have a child, but there is still lots in life in addition to romantic possibilities, they aren’t the focal point by any means! And why a person would expend vast amounts of energy on someone dishonest or who you cannot trust or even worse doesn’t want you loses me entirely! (May I add that goes for men who want to keep, or to have back women who have cheated on them, … don’t get that either!)
May I just add to your otherwise excellent thoughts that perhaps if someone did/does mean that much to a person maybe a healing spell, and/or cleansing ritual, something to help to release them peacefully from the person’s life and emotional being so they can mend inside and move on might be a good first step?
Magickal Connections 
I don’t have Tumbler, is there any other way to view your post Amythyst?
I thought my Tumblr was public (to all the public, not just other Tumblr people); I’ll check my privacy settings and see if this is possible. Thanks for letting me know that you couldn’t see it.
Well put! I never understood the be all and end all focus so many women (and girls) have on “A Man” either! I remember being totally bewildered by my best friend’s attitude to needing and wanting a BOYFRIEND in high school. I would like to find my life partner, and I’m not that young any more and I would really like to have a child, but there is still lots in life in addition to romantic possibilities, they aren’t the focal point by any means! And why a person would expend vast amounts of energy on someone dishonest or who you cannot trust or even worse doesn’t want you loses me entirely! (May I add that goes for men who want to keep, or to have back women who have cheated on them, … don’t get that either!)
May I just add to your otherwise excellent thoughts that perhaps if someone did/does mean that much to a person maybe a healing spell, and/or cleansing ritual, something to help to release them peacefully from the person’s life and emotional being so they can mend inside and move on might be a good first step?
Sincerely,
Grey Dove
This is an excellent suggestion!…input, opinions, and more ideas are *always* welcome 🙂 (I know, I agree with you, mind-boggling, isn’t it)