Soul Contracts ~ [Edit: Clarifying Soul Mates] Soul Mate, Bump, Twin Flame

There are a few eye-brow raising explanations here for me. For instance, the idea that a twin flame contract comes unexpectedly out-of-the-blue and often happens when each of you are already in established relationships or marriages… hmmm, if someone were to look at this from a scewered perspective, they might see it as an excuse to cheat, or the idea that — “it’s okay to have an affair, this is part of my spiritual growth.” *cough*  What do you’all think?