Embracing the Crone & Facing the Mirror

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Embracing the Crone & Facing the Mirror… Let’s look at Baba Yaga and Cerridwen. Also included in this blog post, how YOU can embrace the crone. All about — mentoring a younger woman; starting a scrapbook; writing a bucket list; healing an estrangement; and doing something contrary to your usual nature… follow the link and read on.

Natural Magick (the gray witch way) ~ What’s in it?

I forget how jam-packed this book is until I go back and revisit it, which I’m inexplicably drawn to do from time to time.  The oddest thing about writing books is that when you go back and re-read them, you don’t remember where these thoughts and ideas and words all came from. (Did I say that?)  Writing a book is kind of like being momentarily possessed.  Below, you’ll find the Table of Contents to Natural Magick the Gray Witch Way, and maybe you too will be inexplicably drawn to this book.  

How does real magick work?…10

Forms of Magick…13

The Mysteries of Magickal Manifestation…19

Creating Magickal Space…26

A Checklist of Magickal Supplies…53

Charging your Magickal Tools…65

Twelve Months of Magick…72

Seven Days of Magick…104

Animal Magick…115

Magick for Love n’ Money…144

·         Love Spells…151

·         Love Potion #9

·         Rose Spell

·         Smooth Marital Turmoil

·         Hot Sex Spell

·         Makin’ Tracks

·         Love Spells for Men…157

·         Make Her Behave:  Pubic Hair Spell

·         Magickal Male Enhancement

·         Love Spells for Women…161

·         Keep Him Faithful Spell

·         Attract Your Man

·         Irresistibly Spell

Money…166

·         Money Spells…169

·         Silver Coin Spell

·         Loose the Miser Spell

·         New Business Money Mojo

·         Sugar Honey Jar Spell

·         Home Money Spell

·         Pocket Money Spell

Mojo Magick…182

·         Poppets…184

·         Mojo Bags…207

Magick Oils/Potions/Powders…226

Crystal Magick…270

Candle Magick…297

Magickal Alphabets and Symbols…314

·         Runes…316

·         Witch’s Alphabet…325

·         The Pentagram…329

·         The Elements…334

·         Planets…341

·         Astrological Symbols…354

Witches’ Bottles…366        

Essential Oils…386

Kitchen Magick…392

·         Recipes…405

·         Strawberry Love Salad

·         Lady Amythyst’s Pumpkin Pie

·         Gingerbread

·         Litha Peach Cobbler

·         Full Moon Biscuits

·         Deviled Eostre Eggs

·         Lammas Loaf

·         Midsummer’s Night Tea

·         Garden Magick Soup

·         Green Man Cake

·         Beltane Bean Dish

Good Luck Charms…439

Questions and Answers…447

·         What is the difference between white and black magick?

·         Is it possible to dwell too much on a spell you’ve cast & ruin it?

·         Who can do magick?

·         What is a familiar?

·         What is neo-paganism?

·         Do All witches practice their religion the same way?

·         Who is the Wiccan Goddess?

·         When did you first know you were a witch? 

Magickal Substitutions…467

Terms and Lingo…473

Natural Companions ~ “they get along well on the shelf”

Even before “The Gray Witch’s Grimoire” had been sent flying across the pond to my publisher in England (Moon Books/John Hunt Publishing), I was knee-deep in writing my next witchy book, “Natural Magick the Gray Witch Way”. The second book I published independently with Amazon through their KDP program under Pink Orchid Publishing — which is me. But for one brief insane moment, there was one of those slow-motion experiences when the little voice in my head said, “Wait a minute, you should combine these books.” It was absolute basic laziness which resulted in my reaction, which was “Nope, don’t think so, there’s so much material here.” So I didn’t.

One book went one way, on its destiny overseas, where it would eventually become a best seller. And the other book has found it’s spot at Amazon, happily ensconced among the witchy tomes of neo-pagans around the world.

I have always said, and I’m saying so again with emphasis, that these two books make great companion books and will get along quite well on the book shelf together. Whatever I didn’t include in one, can be found in the other. Below you’ll find an overview of the contents of each book and links to purchase. Both books are available in print and kindle at Amazon…. continue reading, follow the link: https://everycathasatale.blogspot.com/2022/07/two-books-that-make-great-companions.html

Dance…

The Divine Me: Embracing Your Inner Goddess… [excerpt]

• Dance

Long, long ago, I would dance. I would put on several layers
of the large discarded house dresses, party dresses, and
petticoats of my grandmother and my aunts, slip my small
feet into their oversized high heels, and spin in the middle of
my bedroom, making the long skirts fan out around me.

This was my dance…

[page 169, from the chapter: “Facing the Mirror: How do you connect with the physical you?]

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The “Stars” Keep Coming

The “stars” keep coming. Apparently this book has hit a cord with many people out there, women particularly, who connect with the experiences that are reflected here. Please, keep passing this book along… to your sister, your friend, your co-worker, or acquaintance, anyone you think would benefit by reading it, by hearing someone else’s story, by discovering that they are not the only ones to experience the narcissist and a toxic relationship. You are not alone, and the best thing you can do to protect yourself is to arm yourself with knowledge; knowledge about the different faces of emotional instability and abuse, knowledge about how to deal with this kind of situation and this type of person. Learn how to heal, how to move on, or how to rebuild. Pass it on…

ladymoon3
5.0 out of 5 stars
great read
Reviewed in the United States on December 2, 2023
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loved this book , well written and very insightful for those who have been through what the author has described . Therapeutical at the end …couldn’t put the book down .

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Chronicles of a Madd Housewife ~ another five-star review

Jennifer H.

5.0 out of 5 stars A Lifeline for those in Toxic, Traumatic Relationships!
Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2023

Almost universally experienced, toxic relationships resonate with us all. In ‘Chronicles of a Madd Housewife: It’s Not You, It’s Me,’ acclaimed author Amythyst Raine diverges from her previous works, and offers readers a shocking glimpse into the entanglements of toxic relationships. With vivid storytelling, she shares a profound journey, providing insights into the complex dynamics of these types of relationships. The book is divided into three sections to guide the reader through this journey:

Part 1: Coffee and Ruminations

In this section, the reader is taken on an intimate exploration of a highly toxic relationship. Within these pages lies a candid narrative of lies, betrayal, and heartbreak. This section offers us a glimpse into the diary of this “madd housewife” who feels like everything she thought she knew about her partner and her relationship is turned upside down and nothing makes any sense. Much like Madd Hatter said in Alice in Wonderland, “If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn’t. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn’t be. And what it wouldn’t be, it would. You see?” This is the kind of rabbit hole our titular housewife has fallen into and there is no logic in this land! This section was hard to read and more than once I had to set the book aside and walk away because I was so angered at what her partner said and did to her! Those in similar relationships will find their feelings validated while reading Part 1 and understand they are not crazy, that it is not their fault but rather a flaw in the partner.

Part 2: Things You Should Know

Here, we navigate the complexities that often accompany toxic relationships. From identifying emotional turbulence to understanding when “harmless flirtation” crosses the line into infidelity, and is there even such a thing as harmless flirtation? This section delves into crucial topics, including how to handle a partner still hung up on their ex, how to tell when an emotionally unstable person is lying to you, and the different types of cheaters. This was my favorite section because it not only describes what toxic behavior is and how to identify it but it gives you actual concrete steps you can take or how to act in each situation. This is something I find lacking in a great deal of “self-help” books. Sure, they can point out what to look for but rarely do they tell you what to do when you are in the situation! This is much appreciated!

Part 3: Healing and Rebuilding

As the storm subsides, a new phase begins. In this section of the book, we find guidance on recognizing the right time to step away or if the relationship can be salvaged. Included are insights to help one cope with relationship trauma, surviving recurring bouts of infidelity, establishing boundaries (be it boundaries with a partner’s ex or boundaries after your relationship is over), and a myriad of other insights for healing and growth. The author also lets the reader know that she is not a professional and that this book is not meant to be a substitute for professional help and if one feels in danger one should contact appropriate agencies.

Having read all of Amythyst’s other books I was unsure what to expect with this one as it is so far from her usual subject matter. I am here to say I was not disappointed! This book was just as intriguing as her previous works, perhaps even more so. To me, that is the mark of a truly gifted author when they can write so engagingly on a variety of topics. As I mentioned previously, nearly all of us have been in a toxic relationship at one point or another so I honestly recommend this book to everyone. Even if you have left that toxic partner in the past often the wounds remain. Amethyst offers the medicine to help heal those wounds.

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Chronicles of a Madd Housewife ~ another 5 star review!

Another five-star review for “Chronicles of a Madd Housewife” coming through! And I received my box of author copies, which is always exciting, no matter how many books you’ve published…

Mountain Mama
5.0 out of 5 stars Should be required reading for any woman in a relationship with a man. Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2023

What a shame that I didn’t have the advice from this book prior to getting married. No, wait ….. prior to dating! The well laid out categories of cheaters described by this author pretty much cover many of the men that I either dated or married. Had I read of the author’s experiences perhaps I would have been more capable of identifying the behaviors I experienced but did not fully recognize. I fell into the well defined woman’s category of thinking that since I was honest, everyone else was, right?

I could go on and on with examples that I have personally experienced and which resonate with my history, but you would be bored with my descriptions. Just read this book.

Let me say this, again. Just read this book if you are in the market for a new relationship, if you find yourself questioning yourself because of your partner’s behavior, or if you’ve ever had that little tingle that is telling you something is way, way, off, but you just don’t WANT to recognize it.

I recognized the description of myself in this book and also recognized much of my own self-destructive, accommodating behavior. I also found many, many of the people I’ve been involved with. Too bad I didn’t read it much sooner.
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Chronicles of a Madd Housewife ~ sneak peek inside!

I just received the author’s proof copy of my newest book, the book that is a whole new genre for me, and I’m absolutely thrilled. Here’s a sneak peek inside the book, and remember that you can read a limited section at Amazon with their “read sample” feature.

Here’s the table of contents. The first part of this book is a true, very personal, experience that sets the tone for this Madd Housewife and gives you an idea of the issues she’s dealing with. (Names and locations have been changed to protect the privacy of those whose life is laid bare here.)

The second part of the book takes a look at the issues that were being experienced in the first part of the book and how to identify them, because sometimes in the midst of the hubbub you’re not sure what’s happening. And, of course, we examine possible solutions to overcome these nefarious issues.

The third part of the book is everything you should know in the realm of relationships so that you can plot a successful course for your love life and hopefully avoid some of the unfortunate pitfalls that are just laying in wait for you.


Table of Contents

Part 1: Coffee & Ruminations

That’s a Problem…10
The Map & the Rendezvous…17
Time to Man Up…27
Habitual Cheater…32
A Prologue to Little Miss Mexico…40
A Most Unusual Question…44
How I Long for Stability & Security…49
I Can’t Tell You What You Want to Hear…53
You Just Wait…56
Why Are We Even Together…59
Finally, An Honest Moment…66
A Suspicious Mind…69
I Can’t Talk…74
I Know the Signs…77
The Kat Woman…82
Facebook Games with His Friends…88
Relationship Stuff: a squatter, life, business,     
moving, & wedding rings…94
Just When I Think He’s Normal…103
I Think I’m Going to Have to Move…106
The Gold Woman’s Band Appears: It’s Not a Wedding Ring!…111
City Place @ Newport Apartments…115

Unsupervised, He Says…119
I Heart You…121

Part 2: Things You Should Know

What if Your Partner is Emotionally Unstable…127
When Does Flirting Turn Into Cheating…136
Chronic Cheaters…140
The Archetypes of a Cheater…147
Nine Ways to Recognize a Liar…150
Finding Your Ex on Social Media…155
Do’s And Don’ts and Common Sense…160
Emotional Deprivation Disorder…165
The Serial Over-Lapper…169
Signs Your Partner is Not Over Their Ex…173
Falling In Love with Someone Still In Love with Their Ex…177
Emotional Cheating…180

Part 3: Healing & Rebuilding, or Moving On

When It’s Time to Abandon Ship…185
Relationship Trauma…188

Surviving Repeated Infidelity…191
Boundaries and the Ex, What to Avoid…196
How Should You Deal with a Lying Partner…201
Walk Away Wife Syndrome…208
What About the Narcissist…211
The Emotionally Immature Partner…220
Three Stages of a Toxic Relationship…227
The #1 Destroyer of Relationships…233
Recovering from a Toxic Relationship…236


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First Five Star Review! ~ coming through/Chronicles of a Madd Housewife

Lady M

5.0 out of 5 stars Toxic relationships decoded.Reviewed in the United States on October 24, 2023

Toxic relationships. Everyone has either had one (or more), or they know someone who has. In Chronicles of a Madd Housewife: It’s Not You, It’s Me, celebrated author, Amythyst Raine, takes a departure from her previous writings to give the reader perspective into what it’s like to be caught in a toxic situation. Could this be you? ….or someone you know? How long do you stay? When is it time to leave? If you’re not sure of the answers to these questions, I encourage you to read this book. You’ll find the answers here.

If you haven’t ordered your copy, follow this link and do that now…

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Surprise!! The Chronicles of a Madd Housewife @ Amazon

I’m so excited about my new book, it’s a whole new genre for me…

This book is dedicated to everyone who has experienced the insanity of a toxic relationship and have shouted:  “I should write a book!”

I have, so I did.

Chronicles of a Madd Housewife takes you on a journey through an individual’s very skewered personal experience in a toxic relationship.

Along the way you will learn how to identify and cope with a myriad of specific issues that arise with this toxic journey.

You will also find advice on what to do once the dust has settled, how to heal and move on, or how to stay and rebuild.

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Happy Monday!! Book of the week ~ “Natural Magick the Gray Witch Way”

Before I started writing this book, Natural Magick the Gray Witch Way, I had just finished and sent off for publication, “The Gray Witch’s Grimoire”.  On completion of the “Natural Magick…” manuscript, I thought to myself, “Damn, I should have combined these two books for one great big fat volume.”  But I didn’t, and I don’t know if that can be rectified someday, or whether it’s too late.  We’ll see.  However, these two books together make great companions, as they are two separate books pining to be one:

This book is available @ Amazon
in print and kindle

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Table of Contents

How does real magick work?…10

Forms of Magick…13

The Mysteries of Magickal Manifestation…19

Creating Magickal Space…26

A Checklist of Magickal Supplies…53

Charging your Magickal Tools…65

Twelve Months of Magick…72

Seven Days of Magick…104

Animal Magick…115

Magick for Love n’ Money…144

·         Love Spells…151

·         Love Potion #9

·         Rose Spell

·         Smooth Marital Turmoil

·         Hot Sex Spell

·         Makin’ Tracks

·         Love Spells for Men…157

·         Make Her Behave:  Pubic Hair Spell

·         Magickal Male Enhancement

·         Love Spells for Women…161

·         Keep Him Faithful Spell

·         Attract Your Man

·         Irresistibly Spell

Money…166

·         Money Spells…169

·         Silver Coin Spell

·         Loose the Miser Spell

·         New Business Money Mojo

·         Sugar Honey Jar Spell

·         Home Money Spell

·         Pocket Money Spell

Mojo Magick…182

·         Poppets…184

·         Mojo Bags…207

Magick Oils/Potions/Powders…226

Crystal Magick…270

Candle Magick…297

Magickal Alphabets and Symbols…314

·        Runes…316

·         Witch’s Alphabet…325

·         The Pentagram…329

·         The Elements…334

·         Planets…341

·         Astrological Symbols…354

Witches’ Bottles…366        

Essential Oils…386

Kitchen Magick…392

·         Recipes…405

·         Strawberry Love Salad

·         Lady Amythyst’s Pumpkin Pie

·         Gingerbread

·         Litha Peach Cobbler

·         Full Moon Biscuits

·         Deviled Eostre Eggs

·         Lammas Loaf

·         Midsummer’s Night Tea

·         Garden Magick Soup

·         Green Man Cake

·         Beltane Bean Dish

Good Luck Charms…439

Questions and Answers…447

·         What is the difference between white and black magick?

·         Is it possible to dwell too much on a spell you’ve cast & ruin it?

·         Who can do magick?

·         What is a familiar?

·         What is neo-paganism?

·         Do All witches practice their religion the same way?

·         Who is the Wiccan Goddess?

·         When did you first know you were a witch? 

Magickal Substitutions…467

Terms and Lingo…473

Book Trailer

[Excerpt, from Forms of Magick, page 13]

Sympathetic Magick

This is that.

  • A specific object is chosen to represent the target of a spell. Through sympathetic magick, this object actually ‘becomes’ the target. Whatever happens to this object, happens to the target.

The most common form of this magick, and the one I have personally used the most, are poppets– those infamous dollies of hoodoo fame. A poppet does not just represent the 

target, it actually becomes the target, with the addition of personal items and effects belonging to the subject, secret rituals to breathe it to life, and the movement of magical energy to manifest and transform the very being of this cloth creation into the flesh and blood essence of your target. This is why it’s so important to keep these poppets in secure safe locations.

Comparative Magick

·       A relationship and connection between a magickal object or objective are associated with and represented by a specific item or items.

A good example of this type of magick would be the Witches’ Bottle. Say for instance that you want to create a bottle to draw money and wealth. You would add to this bottle a number of items, all designed to draw the energy of money and wealth to the bottle, and thus to you. These items would include coins and paper money, herbs for wealth and prosperity, stones, and personal talismans. This bottle is, in effect, representative of your desires and your objective, which is to draw money to yourself. And it will do just that.

Directive Magick

This affects that.

·       This magick raises energy while the practitioner focuses and visualizes their goal and uses an item or items to move this energy toward manifestation.

The most common form of this magick, and the easiest to work, is candle magick. The candle is imbued with the energy of your goal by carving various symbols and sigils upon it, dressing it with oils and rolling it in herbs that carry the energy of your intentions. As the candle is consumed by the flame, you will maintain a visualization of the end results of this spell, so your goals and intentions are sent out into the universe and the cosmos with lightning speed and absolute assurance of magickal manifestation.

Transference Magick

·       Transference magick moves a malevolent energy out of one object or individual and into something or someone else.

The mildest example of this type of magick would be protective magick utilized to block negative energy or to send it back to its source. A more intense form of Transference Magick would be an exorcism; and the most extreme form would be a hex or a curse.

[Excerpt from The Infamous Vacuum, page 20]

The Infamous Vacuum

The rule is– if you empty a space, creating a vacuum, something else will fill this space. This is true not only from a magickal perspective, but from a mundane vantage point as well– it’s called physics. The thing is that once you’ve emptied this space, i.e. banishing something/someone, you have no control over what is going to fill this vacuum which you have created.

I learned this pointedly through an interesting lesson.We used to have a neighbor who lived behind us, a rather unusual elderly man whose behavior was becoming consistently more erratic as time went on. Until we put a fence up between our properties, he would set his self-propelled tractor sprinkler in the middle of our basketball court as it’s starting point. My children didn’t like this and neither did I. If I wanted to water my lawn, I was perfectly capable of doing it myself. He was a cross-dresser, which is really beside the point, but it’s an intriguing fact that I’m going to toss in anyway. I remember many a morning, up early for my first cup of coffee, I’d step out onto the back porch, and there was 

this man, his garage lit up like a circus, just climbing into his car wearing a white skirt, a red sweater and heels to match. He was off to the local café for breakfast.

It was when he began mowing his lawn in nothing but briefs and tennis shoes that I became concerned. “Briefs” is a generous description for what he wore. Let’s say that there was just enough material to cover the necessities– barely. My girls were younger at the time, and I really didn’t feel that they needed this show, and neither did they, it was a little too much.

I decided that it was time for this man to take a hike. So, I rolled up my sleeves, put a whopping banishing spell together, and gave this guy a magickal punch to his mid-section. Within a moon phase, he was gone. 

I was feeling quite pleased with my big old powerful witchy self, when I came through the kitchen one morning to find my husband standing at the backdoor, his nose pressed to the glass, peering over the fence, into the ex-neighbor’s back yard.

“What are you looking at?”, I asked.

“The new neighbor.” he says.

I wanted to see what was capturing his attention, so I took a look myself. There in the backyard, bouncing merrily along on a huge riding mower, was a very petite gorgeous tanned blonde woman in a very tiny pink bikini.

Hello, Monday!! The book for this week is “Tarot: A Witch’s Journey”

I’ve been writing my whole life, ever since I started journaling at 12 years old.  In my teens I naively sent off tedious poetry to a variety of magazines, and finally, in my early 30s, I actually received payment for a series of short stories that were published in literary magazines featuring fiction.  

This was an affirmation to me, an acknowledgment from the universe that, yes, I could write, and there were people who actually wanted to read what I have written — and they would pay me for this grand creative effort.

So, comes the year 2009.  I was getting dressed early one spring day.  I remember it as if it were yesterday.  I was standing in my bedroom, slipping on a pair of blue jeans.  I had just put one foot in one leg when I heard a voice in my head say:  “Write a book.”

So I did, and this book, Tarot: A Witch’s Journey, is the result.

It was published a year later, in October 2010, by Labyrinth House Publishing.

This book was republished as a 10th anniversary edition in February 2018, with Amazon and Pink Orchid Publishing…

Available @Amazon
in kindle, print, and hard cover


Follow author, Amythyst Raine, through the realm of Tarot, uncovering life’s mysteries along the way. Explore esoteric connections through the cards with astrology, numerology, and the Kabbalah. Delve into criminal cases explored intimately through the intricacies of the tarot and intuitive reading. Connect with and experience the human psyche through the court cards. Discover tarot’s power within the magick of the occult world. Begin your journey through the realm of Tarot today.

Table of Contents

The Tarot ~ 6

The Minor Arcana ~ 8

Court Cards ~ 34

The Major Arcana ~ 47

Frequently Asked Questions ~ 76

Deeper Tarot Connections ~ 91

Tarot Spreads ~ 104

Criminal Cases/Psychic Readings ~ 143

Astrological Correspondences ~ 167

The Zodiac/12 Houses ~ 178

Numerology & The Tarot ~ 195

The Kabbalah Connection ~ 215

Tarot Magic ~ 237

[I included in this book a very special section to the Table of Contents so you can easily find the tarot spells included in this book]

Spells

• Mojo Bag Spells

To Bring Justice ~ 243
The Bag of Retribution ~ 245
For Safe Travel ~ 247
For Safe Childbirth ~ 250
The Bag of Riches ~ 251
The Lovers Bag ~ 252
To Uncover the Truth ~ 253
The Personal Power Mojo Bag ~ 254
For Protection ~ 256

• Candle Spells

To Promote Fidelity ~ 257
To Catch a Thief ~ 260
To Gain Employment ~ 262
The Wish Spell ~ 264
To Regain Balance in Your Life ~ 266
To Summon Someone
From Your Past ~ 268
Reaching a Decision ~ 272
Achieving Victory ~ 274
Banishing Nightmares ~ 276

October 2010

My first book release.

Book Trailer…

to promote the 10th anniversary release of the second edition in July 2020.  This is an updated and illustrated edition that is available in print, hardcover (in color), and kindle.

[Excerpt:  Minor Arcana ~ In-depth]

The Two’s

The two’s involve pairs. These cards can revolve around couples, business, money, mental endeavors, and decisions, as depicted by cups, wands, pentacles, and swords. The two’s can predict compatibility and the need and direction of decisions. The two’s speak of balance—yin yang, black and white, left and right, etc.; they herald partnerships and validate relationships. This suit can also warn us when there are imbalances in our lives that may affect unpredictable areas.

Two of Pentacles

The figure on this card appears as a juggler, most often than not. In each hand he holds a golden disk, balanced precariously on their edges. As this card tells us, the trick of life, the most important thing, is to keep everything in it balanced out, on an even keel. Upright this card indicates that we have accomplished this task successfully. In deep concentration, we maintain an even equilibrium in our lives; and in doing so the paths before us will be smooth and easier to traverse. This card reminds us that maintaining balance is much like keeping a house clean, it is an ongoing thing.

When this card is reversed, it is a smack to our consciousness, telling us that something is off kilter, out of whack, with often tumultuous and chaotic consequences. There is an imbalance somewhere in our lives, and this imbalance will be like ripples on a pond, upsetting the smooth surface in all aspects of our existence. The surrounding cards will quickly point out the specific areas that are affected and will offer solutions to the dilemma.

Two of Swords

Crossed lances, a blindfolded figure…Conflict, inability to compromise, unwillingness to see that which we don’t want to face, not having all the information needed to arrive at a decision. This card tells us that the problem here in lies with us. It speaks to us of internal forces at work, creating within us indecision, stubbornness, blunders, and aloofness. This card tells us to open our eyes, take a clear look. The truth, the answer, the right path, all will be revealed in time.

Reversed, this card assures you that the answers, the solutions, the correct path are right before you, just open your eyes and you will see. This card, in conjunction with those around it, can also be pointing to very specific solutions, people, paths and answers. The reversed two of swords can also indicate that someone is not ready to see the light, make decisions, or decide on a direction.

Two of Wands

This card speaks of partnerships, pairings, a mutual benefit derived from working together. It can also point to the need for decisions based around issues of business, finance, and other practical mundane matters of life. Within this card, the figure, standing so his back is to us, seems deep in concentration, sort of wrapped up in his own thought process. At the same time, he’s also watching the horizon, facing a direction that allows him to see what’s coming, to avoid unpleasant surprises, to be prepared.

In some decks there are other figures in the distance, often a ship or an animal. This can indicate a second party who will have a direct effect on the decision made, on the partnership, or the business venture. Pay attention to your impressions about these figures.

Reversed, this card often warns us that now may not be the right time to undertake any new projects or in-depth endeavors. You may need more information, maybe something more from the mundane world such as funds, backing, or support. It doesn’t necessarily mean that the enterprise should be abandoned, merely that more time may be needed to work out any glitches.

Two of Cups

The suit of cups deals with emotions and relationships. This card often announces engagements, weddings, a union of some kind. Depending on the surrounding cards in the reading, this could be any sort of union that is steeped in strong emotions and a variety of relationship connections. Upright, this card reeks of a couple, a partnership, soul mates, a coming together. This often means a physical union, but it can also point out more intangible unions, such as a ‘meeting of the minds’. This is a celebratory card and strikes at the heart, the deep-seated center of love, strong emotions, and ethereal fantasies.

Reversed, the two of cups can sting a bit. It may be telling us to step back, slow down, and take a second look. This card can also indicate problems in a marriage or a relationship. Look closely at the surrounding cards for details. It can speak of imbalances in relationships and expose controlling behavior. In some of my readings, the two of cups have also foretold of cancelled engagements and weddings, and it has spoken of divorce.

[Excerpt: Major Arcana ~ In-depth]

18. The Moon

Mystery, esoteric knowledge, psychism, deceptions, mental illness, the dark side—the enlightened side…All meanings of The Moon, and all of these aspects for this beautiful and complicated card have come up in my readings.

This card, with its moonlit path always leading between two stalwart towers or mountains, has the feeling of wandering about it, an unsettled spirit and eternal quest. This quest may involve the search for something in our mundane world, and this card has indeed come up in readings for missing person cases. This quest can also involve the spiritual, the intangible search for knowledge, often occult knowledge. It speaks of ‘The Seeker”.

The sentinels on either side of this card, often portrayed as canines, reeks of inner initiation, of someone who has come through—or is about to enter—a new phase of self-awareness and inner enlightenment.

Reversed, this card often is a warning—someone close to you is not being truthful, perhaps it is you yourself, not being true to those around you, or being swallowed by self-deception. Occasionally The Moon has warned of an unbalanced mind, mental illness, or the dark side of yourself or someone close to you.

This is my favorite tarot card of the entire deck. I suppose part of this affinity stems from the Wiccan, Goddess oriented part of myself. I find comfort in the moon, in the subdued light it casts, and in its ever changing subtle energy and phases.

Yes, this card has a dark side, there’s no getting around that. But there are light and dark aspects to everything in our world, everything of nature. Sometimes we find ourselves stepping into these shadows, only to discover the light.

And that’s where this card will take you.

[Excerpt: The Querents]

  • The Talker

One sunny afternoon when I was giving readings in an occult shop, a determined middle-aged lady plopped herself down in front of me and started to profusely proclaim how glad she was that I was there to read for her.  As I shuffled the cards, she began a one-woman soliloquy on her life, her late husband’s life, her children’s lives, and her grandchildren’s’ lives.  When I began to turn the cards and opened my mouth to give her the reading she was so ecstatic to be receiving, I thought she would stop talking.

She didn’t.

Every time I turned a card, before it was even all the way over, she would react, first with a sigh, a ‘tsk, tsk’, a dismayed ‘oh my’, or a squeal of approval.  And she would then proceed to read the cards in her own interpretation, chattering away at a hundred miles an hour.

I couldn’t get a word in.

Throughout the entirety of this reading, she persistently wanted to know if she would receive the money she needed for an upcoming bill, but she never stopped talking long enough for me to tell her anything.  She insisted that I draw another card, and another card, and another card, hoping to see the answer she desired.  After the last card was turned and she gave a final sigh, she said impatiently, “Well, do you see that money coming in on time or not?”

Quite frankly, I didn’t, and I told her so.

She looked at me with a condescending eye, thinly veiled contempt, and with a disappointed attitude she said, “Well, I guess you did the best you could.”

Then she pushed back her chair, stood up, and stormed off.

Try not to let this type of client rattle you.  Most likely she would never find favor with anything you had to say, even if you would’ve gotten the opportunity to say it.

[Excerpt: Using Psychic Tarot Readings to Solve Criminal Cases]

Tarot Case #4


September 17, 2005

Taylor Marie Behl,  Richmond, Virginia

Knight/cups ®

2/cups     5/cups     Knight/pentacles

The Moon     Lovers ®     High Priestess ®

4/Swords     3/pentacles     King/wands ®

General Reading:

There is a romantic relationship. 

There is someone Taylor was involved with—friend, lover.  She broke up with this person. Someone, something was lost.  There is a young man—appears to be solid type, good worker, serious student, goal oriented, and serious person in general.  She broke up with this person.  It was a sad ending, bad feelings.

There follows a period of trickery and deceit, emotional illness, jealousy, black thoughts…not Taylor, but someone she met.  Another lover comes into the picture. There are problems with this relationship.  This person becomes an ex-lover, boyfriend.  Taylor had misgivings about someone close to her, about this person— but she did not listen to her gut feelings that were warning her about this situation.

There is a possibility Taylor was drugged or poisoned.

Taylor may already be dead as of this date.  But I feel she may have been confined or held for a short period of time against her will before she was killed.  It may have been a very brief period. 

I feel she is already dead.  It’s too late to help her.

Taylor, or her body, may be hidden in, or near, a building.  The abductor may have had two other people help him conceal her body or her.  They know something about it, but I don’t think these people were a part of the actual murder. 

This man (the older man) is fair skinned, has light hair (maybe red), and is a control freak.  When Taylor brushed him off she upset the balance in his life.  He no longer felt in control.  To regain his feeling of control he physically overpowered Taylor.  He may be a few years older than Taylor.  An older man.  The situation was beyond Taylor’s control.  She was helpless.

Summary:

There may have been two men who were involved with Taylor—one of them, a young man, is innocent of any wrong doing—just an ex-beau.

The second, the older man, may have mental problems, is emotionally unstable, and is responsible for Taylor’s disappearance.

Key:

This was a case of a romantic encounter gone bad.

          Second reading

September 17, 2005

8/pentacles 6/pentacles® The Emperor® 
Queen/wands®

General Reading

Taylor was a generous person—to a fault.  People might have taken advantage of her in this respect.  There was an overwhelming negative male influence involved here—overpowering masculinity.  There is a woman—maybe jealous and mean spirited.  This woman may have wanted something from Taylor.  She is also controlling–  This card, The Queen of Wands, also strikes me as having a double meaning here:  It could be Taylor’s mother in mourning—a generous woman, a country woman or genteel lady.  She may also be a business woman.  She is kind and likes children and animals.  She’s the kind of woman who is comfortable being in charge.

Summary:

Authorities should check 1) Taylor’s place of work or study—someone she knows at school and 2) Someone she met at work.  (If not HER place of work, then HIS place of work.)

Facts/Information on this case:

•      September 18, 2005There is a “person of interest”, an older man.  He is a 38-year-old photographer who was working with

Taylor.  Taylor is seventeen.

•      September 19, 2005

Taylor’s cell phone was receiving calls for a week after she disappeared.  Her car—a white Ford Escort– was found 1 ½ miles from her college.  The license plates had been switched to Ohio plates. The person of interest, the photographer, is Ben Fawly.  The 38 year old man met Taylor at her college while visiting a young man there who is his friend and a student at the college.  Ben Fawly was visiting this young man in the dorm.

•      September 20, 2005

Ben Fawly—Taylor had met him some time ago and was having some sort of relationship with him.  He lived in the area.  Police have confiscated items from his home, such as his computer, photos of Taylor, etc.

At one time she had met a young man that she dated on and off but the relationship never grew into anything serious.  This young man is apparently NOT a “person of interest”.

•      September 21, 2005

A second car has been impounded by the police and is being searched.  Ben Fawly had photographs of Taylor posted on his website.  The police have gone to the home of a young man to question him, however, he is not considered to be a suspect.

•      September 26, 2005

There has been an arrest in this case.

•      September 28, 2005The man arrested was 38-year-old photographer, Ben

Fawly.  He was arrested on charges of child pornography.  A young man, Jessie Schulz, took and failed a polygraph test on two counts:  1. Did he know Taylor?  2. Was he in Taylor’s car? This young man lives within a mile or mile and half from Ben Fawly.  The police are looking for a stolen license plate:  GRN ERTH.

•      September 29, 2005

Ben Fawly—fair-skinned, dark hair dyed light reddish.  He has mental problems.  He’s bi-polar. A number of unusual items were removed from his home including a box of bones and sex toys.

Taylor, Jessie Schulz, and two other young men were going to go skate boarding the night she disappeared.

Taylor met Ben Fawly that night and had sex with him before she left to meet the guys for skateboarding.

•      October 6, 2005

Taylor’s body was found yesterday- October 5, 2005.  It was found in Virginia, off a dirt path on a private farm.  The body was buried in a shallow grave behind a barn.  Ben Fawly’s ex-girlfriend led the authorities to the body.  The farm belongs to her family.  Ben Fawly claims that he saw Taylor twice on the day she disappeared and had sex with her on that day.  He also claims that he was abducted that day by 3 or 4 men and then released.

Ben Fawly is on disability because of mental problems.  He is believed to have sexually deviant behavior and had a number of unusual sex toys, etc., removed from his home by the authorities.Police dogs followed a scent trail of Taylor from her abandoned vehicle which was discovered with stolen license plates to the home of Jessie Schulz.  Jessie 

Schulz was in court today on unrelated drug charges.

•      October 10, 2005

Ben Fawly is now officially a suspect in the murder of Taylor Behl.  He was living with a young man that Taylor knew from high school.  He has a long list of assault charges and a restraining order was put on him for one ex-girlfriend.  Cause of death has not been determined yet.  The body is “badly decomposed”.

You will find in this book tarot connected to a variety of other esoteric subjects including astrology, the kabbalah, and numerology.

[Excerpt: The Twelve Houses of the Zodiac]

First House

Self
Sun sign—Aries
Planet—Mars

Personality, temperament, appearance, characteristics, behavior, early life, likes/dislikes, outward persona, mannerisms

The first house is the most powerful and the most revealing, for it is “you”. In a tarot reading, this house will lay you open before the reader. It will tell her how you handle yourself with people and the day to day circumstances of life—Are you fair, temperamental, good-natured and friendly, crotchety, suspicious, affectionate or abusive? All and much more will be revealed. It will expose those things you dislike in life and the world, as well as people, animals, places, activities, or objects you love and cherish.

It will detail certain physical characteristics, as well as mental quirks and any other idiosyncrasies about your nature or habits. If there is anything about yourself that you don’t wish to have exposed, The Horoscope Spread is not a reading you would want to have done—or any tarot reading for that matter.

Anything we hide or hide behind will be stripped away with the turn of a card.

[Excerpt: Journey On the Pathways… There are 22 pathways between the ten sephiroths of the Tree of Life.  To each of these 22 pathways a major arcana card is assigned, as well as a Hebrew letter.  This creates a pathway of interconnected mysteries that can lead to incredibly deep and awe inspiring revelations when the various meanings and correspondences are all taken into consideration.]

Path 28

Tzadi

The Star

This is the path where we discover the mystical and revel in our fantasies—opening doors to these fantasies, making them accessible. This is where we wade through the odyssey that is our dreams and in doing so…find our true identity—the unpolished, raw and gorgeous being that we are.

The charm that is this part of our journey allows an inner world to unfold before us, an inner world filled with creatures created from the essence of our psyche, colors in brilliance and hues not of this world, sounds heard only with the sixth sense, and landscapes woven from the palette of our sub-conscious mind.

We travel in full circle upon this path—that is, in reality, going from one point to the next, but as travelers who are lost and wander in circles until they come to this realization on their own.

Upon this path we discover that the mystical, ethereal portion of our persona shapes our identity with a much larger sense of influence than expected.

[Excerpt: Mojo Bag Spells]

The Personal Power Mojo Bag

Personal Power Bag for Women:

For this mojo bag we’re going to draw on the energy of the High Priestess.  Within her lays the power of the Feminine Divine.  She will represent the inner core of all women, where magic resides, where the witch exists—“There’s a little witch in every woman.”, so goes the saying.  All of these archetypes—the priestess, the goddess, the witch—represents and emphasizes personal power.

Correspondences:

1.       Moon Phase:  full moon

2.       Day:  Monday

3.       Planet:  Moon

4.       Colors:  blue, silver, white

5.       Herbs:  moonwort, lotus, myrrh, gardenia, cardamom, belladonna, thyme, lilac, apple blossoms, violet, wormwood

6.       Stones:  moonstone, blue lace agate, clear quartz crystal

7.       Tarot Card:  The High Priestess

Personal Power Bag for Men:For the man we’re going to draw on the energy of The Magician.  Within him lays the power of the masculine, the Priest—the Elder, the Shaman, the Sorcerer, the Wizard.  The Magician holds the mysticism of the four elements within his hands and the will needed to create magic.  These archetypes represent personal power.

Correspondences:

1.       Moon Phase:  full moon

2.       Day:  Sunday

3.       Planet:  Sun

4.       Colors:  yellow, orange, white

5.       Herbs:  carnation, juniper, rowan, sunflower, St. John’s Wort, mistletoe

6.       Stones:  amber, carnelian, tiger’s eye

7.       Tarot Card:  The Magician

To this bag, add at least three of the herbs and one of the stones listed.  You could also add an image of the God/Goddess, such as a pendent or small statuary.  I’ve seen some very tiny and beautiful ones in new-age shops.  If you have a patron god/goddess, you could also add images, herbs, stones, objects, etc., that are special and unique to His/Her energy. 

Add to this bag images or objects that represent power to you—an object from your work place, if you feel this is where your power lays; a photo of your children; tokens of past success; slips of paper filled with personal affirmations; images of men or women who represent success and power to you, such as your mother or father, grandmother or grandfather, or a public figure. 

This book is jam-packed with so much information on such a variety of levels, I can’t begin to tell you.  And this book was, indeed, a journey, as the title states.  If you haven’t purchased your copy of this book you can do so with the link below at Amazon.  And if you already have a copy, you might want to gift a copy to a friend.  Spread the magick

Tarot: A Witch’s Journey

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Magical Connections & Correspondences ~ through the tarot

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We explore all kinds of esoteric connections with the tarot in my big chunky tarot book, The Ultimate Tarot Guide for Your Personal Tarot Journey.  Here’s examples of some of the information that can be found in this five star book including: stones & crystals; health, Kabbalistic health correspondences; astrological sun signs, moon signs, and rising signs; gods and goddesses; the numbers; calculating the numbers for yourself; the planets; and the elements.

Stones, & Crystals 

I love the tarot, and I love crystals and stones. The only thing better than any one of these things is these three things all together. To mix the energy of a tarot card with the corresponding energy of a stone or crystal is to invite magick into your life. I’ve already added one favorite stone to each major arcana card correspondence in the major arcana section, but this energy is so overwhelming, so connective, so inspiring, so creative, that I’m devoting this space to more information and connections on this topic. Let the magick find you! 

The Fool/Green Tourmaline ~ wonder, joy, openness, patience 

The Magician/Quartz Crystal ~ concentration, life force, balance, expansion 

The High Priestess/Agate Geode ~ psychic power, complexity, esoteric knowledge,

etc. etc.

Health 

10/swords ~ death, acupuncture, internal bleeding, nervous disorder, back surgery, slipped disk, immune system, exhaustion, chiropractic issues 

2/cups ~ fertility/infertility, venereal disease 

4/cups ~ alcoholism, diet, circulation, dehydration, depression

etc. etc.

Kabbalistic Health Correspondences 

The Fool ~ respiratory organs 

The Magician ~ cerebral nervous system 

The High Priestess ~ lymphatic system

etc. etc.

Astrological Sun Signs/Moon Signs/Rising Signs 

You’ll find a chart similar to this under the section for the suits, listing all the astrological connections, suit by suit – card by card, for pentacles, swords, wands, and cups. However, I’m leaving this section here, as you might want to locate a card for a particular zodiac sign, and this chart will make it very easy to do so. 

Aries ~ Major Arcana: The Emperor 

Minor Arcana:  —

King of Pentacles ~ Aries/Taurus 

Queen of Wands ~ Pisces/Aries 

Two of Wands ~ 1st decan of Aries (Mars) 

Three of Wands ~ 2nd decan of Aries (Sun) 

Four of Wands ~ 3rd decan of Aries (Venus)

etc. etc.

Gods & Goddesses 

I believe that tarot works through Spirit and our connection with the Divine, in whatever pantheon or framework of spirituality that we follow and find comfort with. The following chart is created using the major arcana cards and the pantheons of Egyptian, Sumner-Babylonian, Greek, and Roman gods and goddesses. However, always remember that no matter how many charts and confirmed correspondences there may be for the tarot, once you’ve developed your own relationship with the cards, you may discover unique connections that come to you personally. Don’t question their validity, embrace them as a gift from the Universe. 

The Fool: Egyptian/Bes; Harparkrat; Shu ~ Sumner-Babylonian/Enkidu; Enlil; Ellil ~ Greek/Pan; Zeus; Aeolos ~ Roman/Pan; Silvanus 

The Magician: Egyptian/Ptah; Thoth ~ Sumner-Babylonian/Enki; Ea; Nabu ~ Greek/Hermes; Roman/Mercury 

High Priestess: Egyptian/Isis; Khonsu ~ Sumner-Babylonian/Innana; Ishtar; Nannar; Sin ~ Greek/Demeter; Selene; Artemis; Hecate ~ Roman/Ceres; Luna; Diana
etc. etc.

The Numbers 

Numbers contain energy, and associations, and power, and magick, and potential. Do you have a favorite number? And how did you come by this number? What does it mean to you? How does it make you feel? All of the numbers in your life are important and have a direct effect upon you in some manner and at various levels. The entire universe is built upon and works around and through a numerical system, from the number of days it takes Earth to rotate around the sun, to the number of days it takes a fetus to come to term in the womb. Numbers are an integral part of our life and the world around us. The tarot is immersed in numbers. It’s built on a numerical system. The numbers of the tarot cards takes you on individual journeys through higher realms and through your own psyche. In order to more fully understand this journey, we need to have at least a rudimentary look at the numbers themselves. 

1…One 

Planet: Sun 

Element: Fire 

Letters: a, j, s 

The character: the individualist 

Energies: Developing the self, the All, wholeness, unity, beginnings

etc. etc.

Calculating the Numbers for Yourself 

I’ll use myself as an example for this exercise, Amythyst Raine, born on September 24, 1957. 

1)  Soul Number ~ calculate your soul number by reducing the day of your birth to a single digit: 

2 + 4 = 

2)  Fate Number ~ calculate your fate number by adding all the digits of your birth date (day, month, year) and reducing it to a single digit: 

2 + 4 + 9 + 1 + 9 + 5 + 7 = 37 

3 + 7 = 10 

1 + 0 = 1

etc. etc.

The Planets 

When I first began my own tarot journey, the one thing that I was most struck by was the inter-connectedness of everything. I was amazed to discover that it all works together, all of it, and it’s all tied to the cards: the energies of the planets, of colors, and herbs, and crystals, even to the letters of the alphabet, numbers, and zodiac signs. This realization was an eye-opening “aha” moment. 

Below you’ll find the basic energies and correspondences for the planets. You should know, and some of you will realize, that these correspondences not only relate to the tarot, they also relate to a variety of pagan spiritual paths and are incorporated into the practices of many of us. 

I wanted this book and the information contained here to specifically focus on tarot, and I even toyed with the idea of paring these sections down and trying to keep them solely focused on the cards. I soon realized this was folly. Certain connections exist and cannot be denied without diminishing their energy and their power. 

Sun 

The Sun is filled with healing and hope, warmth and the promise of growth. It’s imbued with masculine energy and is closely connected to the god. As it pertains to tarot ~ for clients male issues often come to the forefront, their health, happiness, fulfillment, optimism for the future. But it’s energy is also all encompassing for everyone. You’ll find an abundance of strength, unwavering support, and ridiculous amounts of in-your-face positive energy. The future can only be looking up, and if healing is needed in some aspect of your life, you’ll know it’s coming up with the Sun. 

Day of the Week: Sunday 

Color: yellow, gold 

Herbs: angelica, bay, carnation, cedar, chamomile, eyebright, frankincense, ginseng, goldenseal, juniper, marigold mistletoe, peony pineapple, rosemary, St. John’s Wort, sandalwood, sunflower, tea, witch hazel 

Stones: amber, carnelian, diamond, sunstone, tiger’s-eye, topaz (yellow)Element: Fire 

Energies: magick for the god, male health issues, passion, healing, spiritual connection, transformation, relationship issues

etc. etc.

The Elements 

All four elements, Earth ~ Air ~ Fire ~ Water, are also connected to the tarot on a variety of levels… physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I’m not going to list long paragraphs of general correspondences for these elements here, as I’ve already done this in two of my books (The Gray Witch’s Grimoire & Natural Magick the Gray Witch Way). I’m going to concentrate here on their connection to tarot and perhaps a personal choice I have for an herb and stone that connects their energy to me. 

Earth ~ Pentacles 

Manifestation 

The Physical Realm 

Tarot: pentacles 

Zodiac: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn 

Planet: Earth 

Color: green 

Direction: north 

Herb: patchouli 

Stone: moss agate

etc. etc.

Bringing the World of Tarot to You ~ my ultimate tarot guide

The following blog post is an excerpt from my great big chunky Tarot Book… “The Ultimate Tarot Guide: for Your Personal Tarot Journey”. This book is available in Kindle or Print at Amazon

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This excerpt was taken from the section all about “Paying Clients”. You have to learn how to deal with people in a relatively unusual situation, with a myriad of emotions and mentalities emitting from them. When you do this professionally, you really have to learn how to handle people, when to allow them to vent and talk, and when to instinctively know they are trying to manipulate a reading to get the outcome they desire, or even when a client may be mentally “off” — just a wee bit. And the following client and my experience with her is a good example of that… “The Saga of Evil Gloria”

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From The Ultimate Tarot Guide… that dire 10 of swords/up close & personal

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The Ultimate Tarot Guide: for Your Personal Tarot Journey *link to purchase is above… Whether you’re interested in learning how to read the tarot, or you’re ready to fine tune your skills, or you’d like a completely new perspective on the cards, this is your book. The physical book is actually set up like a workbook, there’s room for you to fill out and actually complete each tarot spread shown here. Also, I do add an unusual twist, and that’s my own personal connection with each of the minor arcana cards, and it can get mighty personal, let me tell you.

For example: The Ten of Swords… (and no, not every card is so dire, but the 10 of swords is, after all, iconic in its misery)

Swords ~ It’s all about life (and certain individuals in it) catching us off guard. Its all about a sucker punch, either from the universe, or through a human connection.

Gossip, lies, misfortune, back-stabbing, illness, surgery, death

10/Swords ~ The saddest thing about this card, when the fatal blow comes from human hands or lips, is that our illusion of friendship or love is instantly shattered, never to return to it’s rosy former state. The sense of betrayal is so thick you can taste it, and if this is your first unfortunate experience with it, it will be very bitter indeed. The figure on this card looks so solitary, but you need to understand that just out of the frame there stands all the individuals who could have sounded an alarm, individuals who could have come forward to support you and affirm your good character, individuals who were either two-faced or intimidated. Whether this difficult and somewhat tragic set of circumstances takes place among a group of friends, the workplace, school, or within a relationship, it is devastating, and the after-effects can last a lifetime.

Reversed:

Check your health. Often this indicates that problems lay, not with
humanity and it’s petty loyalties, but with the body and Destiny’s fate.

My Personal Connection:

The ten of swords is an impressionable dramatic card, there’s no getting away from that. My personal connection with this card and its energy was developed quite early with the idea of female friendships and loyalty. Her name was Debbie S., and we met in high school. I took her friendship and her loyalty for granted, thinking it was an endless boundless infinite state of being, until she showed up with my soon-to-be ex-husband for a divorce hearing, arm in arm, making sure he felt her support and sympathy. The ten of swords is quite appropriate in it’s usually shocking appearance in most tarot decks. It’s energy can leave you blind-sided, open-mouthed in disbelief, and it can quite quickly make mince-meat of your naïve and trusting nature.

The thing about it is, we don’t all learn the lesson this card is trying so hard to teach us right off the bat. So you may find that you will have many such disturbing scenarios in life until you finally get the message the universe is trying to send you. When that clicks, you will realize how important it is to set boundaries, to protect your space, your physicality, and your spirituality. You will discover that you have to protect yourself from the energy of this devastating card and its consequences. If you can’t learn to do this, you will have a repetition of negative events.

“Tarot for Grownups” ~ an irreverent look at grownups and life, through tarot

“Tarot for Grownups”… meaning this book is not for kids or the ‘tweens’ who are playing with their first tarot decks: Tarot for Grownups is a no-nonsense book written to tell it like it is in a black and white, cut-and-dried way. This book is written for grownups, and it looks at their world through the magick and mystery of the tarot, addressing adult issues with unabashed candor and a healthy dose of sarcasm.

This book is deliciously irreverent.

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The following is an excerpt.  It’s a short and sweet list of the Major Arcana cards with an adult twist to the meanings.  In the book, this will be followed up with an up close and more personal look at these cards and what they may imply…

The Major Arcana:
Life in a Shot Glass

0 The Fool: Road sign…“Idiot’s Cross Here”…drive slowly.

1 The Magician: The hand is quicker than the eye.

2 The High Priestess: Use your fricken’head!

3 The Empress: Life is preggers.

4 The Emperor: All man, and don‘t you forget it.

5 The Hierophant: Get a life, for Christ’s sake.

6 The Lovers: Hooking up.

7 The Chariot: Run baby, and don’t look back.

8 Strength: Get a spine.

9 The Hermit: “I ‘vant to be alone.”(Greta Garbo)

10 Wheel of Fortune: Don‘t bet on it.

11 Justice: Holier than thou.

12 The Hanged Man: Pity party.

13 Death: Your mother warned you, and you didn’t listen.

14 Temperance: How dull can it be?

15 The Devil: What you do when no one’s looking.

16 The Tower: Shit happens.

17 The Star: The glass is half full, if you squint.

18 The Moon: Liar, liar, pants on fire.

19 The Sun: Everybody smile…say ‘cheese’.

20 Judgment: I told you so.

21 The World: What goes around comes around.

The Divine Me: Embracing Your Inner Goddess [excerpt]

[Excerpt from one of the “Facing the Mirror” sections… Facing the Mirror: How do you connect with yourself?]

·       Be aware of changes in your energy

Yes, learn to do this. It could save your life.

I was at a stop light in Fremont, Nebraska, southbound on Broad St. I was driving, my now ex-husband was sitting in the passenger seat.

All of the sudden, yep, there it was, that “change” in energy. It’s so hard to describe because it can be so subtle. My reaction to it was that I froze. The red light turned green, and still, I sat there, frozen. My ex was shouting at me now, “Move, go!! The light is green!”

Nope, my body wouldn’t budge.

Within seconds, a car went speeding through a red light in front of us, west bound on 23rd St., at 60 or 70 miles an hour. If I would’ve been making my left hand turn onto this street, it would have broadsided us.

After this vehicle whooshed through this intersection, yep, there it was again, that weird change in energy. I was no longer frozen. I was also miffed at the man in the passenger seat and his attitude, so I turned to him calmly as he sat there now in shocked silence, open-mouthed, and I said, “Okay, now it’s time to move.”

  • · Write down your dreams

I used to keep dream journals, but then I used to remember my dreams. Not so much anymore unless it’s a visitation dream. That’s a dream where the spirit of a departed loved one visits you. They are usually very vivid dreams, you will acutely feel the departed spirit’s presence, and you will not forget the dream. Sometimes your departed family member may have an important message to leave with you.

My great-grandmother showed up to tell me it was okay. I hadn’t seen or spoken to her in several years before she passed. So, she showed herself with her lips tied shut, much like you see on voodoo dolls in hoodoo horror flicks, which was her way of emphasizing a lack of communication. It was an alarming sight at first, but I quickly realized her implications. Then I heard her voice telepathically in my mind: “It’s okay.” Immediately, there was a feeling of peace.

It was her way of acknowledging that even though it had been a long time since we’d seen or spoken with each other, all our ties and our relationship were intact. Always was, always would be.

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